La garde de mon enfant

franco-brit -  
 Frenchy -
Bonjour,
Je suis une anglaise en France, j'habite avec mon copain (un francais), qui est proprietaire de notre appartement, nous avons un enfant de six mois et je commence a me poser des questions sur la garde de notre enfant en cas de certains evenements.
En cas de deces de mon copain et moi je voudrais que mes parents (de nationalite anglaise domicilies en Angleterre) obtiennent la garde de notre enfant et non pas la mere (veuve) de mon copain. Est-ce qu'il y a des demarches que je peux faire pour assurer que mes parents obtiennent la garde de mon enfant. Notre enfant a la nationalite britannique serait-il mieux de faire des demarches en angleterre et est-ce que l'acte serait valable en France? Auraient mes parents le droit de emmener l'enfant en Angleterre et meme passer devant les tribunaux en Angleterre?
En cas de separation de mon copain aurais-je normalement la garde principale de l'enfant? Comme je vous ai explique mon copain est proprietaire de notre appartment, serait-il favourable d'acquerir un bien immobilier et avoir un emploi plein temps (je travaille actuellement a mi-temps) pour avoir plus de chance pour obtenir la garde principlale.
En cas de mon deces, la garde de mon enfant serait-elle autmatiquement confiee a mon copain? Est-ce qu'il y a la possibilite que mes parents aient la garde de notre enfant?

1 réponse

Frenchy
 
Hey,

Im Céline. Im French but I lived in the UK for 6 years. I had my little girl there, she is now 2.
I just read you mail, I know you wroter in October, so you might have already the answers you were expecting.
Anyway, wanted to write to you some details.
My baby, Lilly is born in Manchester,UK. But if one of the parent is another nationality, the baby can have this nationality. My little girl got a Bristish passport when she was 2months old, but its very easy to get a French poassport too (Lilly has a National Identity card). Your boyfriend, with the birth certificate can registrer your baby in a Mairie in Nantes who takes care after all the births in Europe with a French parent. Then ur boy could have the French nationality.
If you die, your boy will go to his dad if hes still alive, not your parents. Because your boyfriend has recognized him on the birth certificate, he got all the legal power, the same as yours.
If your boyfriend and yourself die....This become more difficult. A judge will have to decide for you boy. Unless you do a legal paper at a lawyer. This is expensive, and you boyfriend will have to be there and agree to it.
I dont know the relation between you and your boyfriend....But the future of your boy is sooo important, you should maybe see someone. If you dont earn much, less than 1300 euros per month in France, you should get a free first visit at a lawyer with the proof of your earnings.
If you and ur boyfriend are separated, the mum is normally the one who wil have the right to have the chld permanently with her. But this can change if you can not physically, mentally can not be there for your child and look after him. This can change as well if your earning are not sufficient, and if your boyfriend has a settle job, a settle life, a family around him and a place to live. Yes, I think its preferable if you have an investment, like ur boyfriend has an appartment.... All is in his side.

I hope I gave you some information....
I live in France now again with my little girl. Her dad is in the UK....It was a bit complicated to get her here with me, but everything was in my side.....Thanks god!!
I live in Clermont-Ferrand, dont where you are based?

Anyway, if you want to get in touch or have any other questions, Im not the best and Im not in this field at all, but I am searching so much for me and my little girl that I start to know few stuff....Anyway, you can contact me if you want : lilly.celine@hotmail.co.uk

Take care,
Céline x
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